Sunday, December 4, 2011

Always with your head up high!

There are moments in life that can give you more than a thousand lessons! A situation for example, in which a a guy or someone in general makes you feel special but then, leaves you hanging and you have to act like you don't care at all, cause that's all you gotta do! Not only for your own self-esteem, but for pride too! Those moments simply suck! the whole situation in general! And those awkward moments when you want to punch him so bad in his face (figuratively) and make him realize how dumb he's because he's making the choice of loosing someone great, you! and why? The answer starts with B and ends with H!

Anyways, you have to be strong and as I said before, act like you don't care at all, if he doesn't care... well you don't care either (apparently, but truth is.. you do). That's where all this thing about keeping your head up high comes from. No matter how stupid he makes you feel with his actions, you gotta keep you head up high! no matter if he's your date in a party and he leaves you alone because he's with the most ugly b***h in the most awful dress you'll ever gonna see, you gotta keep your head up high and do as much as you can to take that feeling away from you, because if someone has to feel like a stupid, clearly, that isn't you!

I'm trying to figure out what do I have to learn with all this. So far, I've learn that you can't believe in everything they say. One day they say that they wanna hang out with, and the next day, they don't even say "Hi" when they see you, one day they can tell you how much they like that only day in the week they share with you, and the next one, completely forget about you. I have also learned about how mad and upset you can get, and the best is to give it its time to let it go, so that little important thing about holding your head up high will be easier!
That's all for now!
PS: don't let that stupid guy mess with how great you are.. cause "baby you don't know A THING about me" and "rumor has it and that's the one I'm leaving you for!" ;)

Friday, November 18, 2011

No Idea

Picture yourself the day before a great night! It could be your prom, a great party, a formal dance, anything, in this case, snowball. What do you need? A dress, and of course every girl wants the perfect one; high heels, earrings, necklace, make up... oh so many things... but also, girls, we need a date. I'm living right now in a place where girls start asking guys to be their dates 3 months before the great night! 3 MONTHS before! it's like asking someone to marry you when you're just a kid! no kidding! and what I've heard about this, is that they ask people they don't even talk to, so this is like a kind of competition that starts early, and the reason why... all the "good" boys are going to be asked first, and trust me, "you don't want to go with a random ugly guy". What if that "random guy" will be the perfect date, a guy who will make you laugh, will dance with you all the night and will be a perfect gentleman, and with this I'm not saying that the "good looking guys" aren't going to be the same, but lets face it, sometimes they can be super cocky!

I'm living a total different case in this situation. I'm a foreigner in this school this year, the "new girl", the girl that comes to a new place to start over. When you're new, nobody knows you, you can be who ever you want to be but of course, you need to meet people, unless you want to be the girl that is always sitting at lunch in the table where all the foreigners sit and the girl who never made friends just her foreigner friends. But this is not the point, the point is you're new, you don't know everyone, and the people you barely know in the first month of those 3 months asks you: "Who are you gonna ask for snowball?"  oh believe I don't know and I'm working on it.

Finally you got a date, the guy you might like and that maybe likes you too. So, how are you feeling? So pumped! this is amazing! "He said yes!!!" this is kinda funny actually! And nothing could be more perfect two weeks before when he acts like he really likes you, he tells you all those things guys know! "I like Wednesdays (because I can see you)" ... and the a day before the great night all you can think about is "OMG how is this going to be tomorrow?" "Why the h*** in the world did I asked him?" Don't worry if you're, feeling like this, I'm pretty sure you're not the only one... why? Because that's exactly how I feel right now... and why? just because guys are way more complicated than us! girls! Anyway enjoy your night and be a super star! The most freaking beautiful girl in the dance room!

If you're a girl and you're feeling like this, please give him a lot of hell being the most pretty girl in the dance! and just smile for the picture!

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Clueless

Let´s start from the tittle.. why clueless? well it's a common feeling or sensation that many people develop when love comes to our lives. We can be perfectly without it... no pain, no headaches, no jealousy, just you happy in your own life. But then someone appears in your life and changes everything, so you start feeling all those things... pain, headaches, jealousy, happiness, joy, and some many others, so the only thing I can say about this, is that when it comes to love, all of us become into roller coasters! 

That's why the theme is clueless, because you never know what's gonna happen, we're all there waiting for something that can happen eventually or is just never gonna happen. Clueless, because guys always complain about us, girls! they say that no one in this world can understand us... but what's the point?! Seriously guys, do you think that is easy for us to figure out what you're trying to do?! well... is not! absolutely not, in fact is something really hard sometimes and that's the moment where all our headaches begin!

Clueless... just because I'm a girl, and I'm completely clueless right now!